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Reconnecting After Stress

 

A few years ago, the world dealt with a situation that no one ever thought would happen. When the coronavirus ran rampant across the globe, we were all shut in our homes and separated from family, friends, our work, fun activities – life as we knew it came to a stop.

 

We were living in fear not knowing what would happen next. Thankfully the pandemic has come to an end but there’s a lot of negative consequences we’re working through as a society. Stress is one of those consequences and the other is how to re-engage and re-connect with the world and still feel safe.

Stress is rough on the body and causes many different health problems.

Stress can have various effects on the body, both in the short-term and over a prolonged period. Here are some common results of stress on the body:

1.    Physical health issues: Prolonged or chronic stress can lead to a range of physical health problems such as weaking the immune system, cardiovascular issues like heart disease and high blood pressure, disruption of the digestive system, etc.

 

2.    Mental health disorders: Stress can contribute to the development or exacerbation of mental health conditions like anxiety or depression. It can also increase feelings of irritability and mood swings. Chronic stress may also impair cognitive function, affecting memory, concentration, and decision-making abilities.

 

3.    Sleep disturbances: Stress can disrupt the normal sleep patterns and lead to difficulties falling or staying asleep. It may result in insomnia or restless sleep, which increases feelings of fatigue reducing overall well-being.

 

4.    Muscle tension and pain: Stress often manifests physically as muscle tension and tightness, particularly in the neck, shoulders and back. This can lead to headaches, migraines, and chronic pain such as fibromyalgia.

Tips to effectively manage stress:

There are a number of excellent ways of reducing stress that are focused on reconnecting with people – those we love and even those with whom we work. Here are some fun and interesting ways to reconnect with others in a meaningful and healing way:

1.    Reach out directly: Start by reaching out to friends, family, or acquaintances with whom you may have lost touch during the pandemic. Send them a text message, call or event set up a video chat to catch up and let them know you’re thinking of them.

2.    Organize a gathering: Consider hosting a small gathering or get-together to reconnect with a group of friends or loved ones. It could be a casual backyard barbecue, a picnic in the park, or a game night at your home. Creating a relaxed and enjoyable atmosphere can help everyone ease back into socializing.

3.    Attend social events: Look out for local community events, concerts, art exhibitions, or outdoor activities that align with your interests. Participating in these events can provide an opportunity to meet new people and reconnect with the community as a whole.

4.    Volunteer together: Engaging in volunteer work is not only a way to give back but also an excellent way to reconnect with others who share similar values. Find a cause that resonates with you and see if there are any local volunteer organizations or initiatives you can join. Working together for a meaningful cause can foster connections and create a sense of purpose.

5.    Join clubs or groups: Explore your interests and hobbies to find clubs, groups, or organizations that bring people together who share similar passions. Whether it’s a book club, a sports team, a cooking class, or a language exchange group, participating in activities you enjoy can help you meet new people and reconnect with old friends who share those interests.

Hopefully we never have to deal with another pandemic like the coronavirus ever again. Unfortunately dealing with stress is something that we will all continue to experience at different times in our lives. But it doesn’t mean that we have to disengage from those we love. Reaching out for help, advice and comfort is the first step.

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